A quiet life

I just read a post by a fellow blogger who I feel I've got to know quite well over the past year or so. In this post he describes an incident many years ago growing up in a rough part of New York. At the age of twelve, his life was very seriously threatened when he and his brother went to the public pool.

Realising the conditions that many people are compelled to regard as "normal", I am unbelievably thankful that I was able to grow up in a safe environment, and that we have such a safe and welcoming place to bring up our children.

Family days

I missed a day yesterday. First time since starting this blog...ooh, let's see...all of two weeks ago :)

But this weekend we had no Girl Guide or Cub Scout commitments. No camps, no sleepovers, no fundraisers.

It was a bit of a family day yesterday. Sitting on the front steps in the sunshine, with my wife, drinking coffee. A family swim at the local rec. centre, playing "tag" in the lazy river. Playing daft board games with the kids after dinner.

I'm lucky to have a family to share these things with.

Service with a smile

When I do the grocery shopping each week, I am blessed that the friendly staff at the local Thrifty Foods make it such an enjoyable experience.

I've experienced many years of supermarket hell, with overcrowded aisles, long lines at the checkout, and staff who acknowledge you only enough to take your money while they chatter to each other about how drunk they got last night and who shagged who.

But the last few years have been a consistently pleasant experience. The lady today surprised me by suddenly saying "Thank you for making my day."

Why? She'd just scanned a box of Nanaimo bars, and it reminded her how she once asked her grandmother, "Have you ever tried Nanaimo bars?"

"Yes," her grandmother replied. "All of them!"

She lived in Nanaimo at the time.

Light at the end of the tunnel

I heard today that we finally got the go-ahead to recruit a new member of staff to help out a particularly stretched team. This is just one of many that we should have had on our payroll before the financial crunch wiped out all the vacancies we were in the process of filling, but it is a start.

Common sense is starting to shine through. Thank goodness for that.

A quiet home

When the frantic bustle of another work day is over, and the runs to music (my son) and Sparks (my wife is a leader, daughter a helper) are over, dinner cooked and eaten, I am so thankful to be able to curl up for an hour of "down time" and let the cares of the day wash away.

Choices

Even when things are hectic to the point of insanity at work, I can still rely on my colleagues to bring a dose of proportion to the day. Someone this morning showed me a series of slides that proposed an important principle...

10% of life is made up of what happens to you … 

90% of life is decided by how you react …

The slides walked through an example of how a tiny accident at the breakfast table could totally ruin your day.

Or not.

The accident (the 10%) was outside your control. The rest was determined by how you chose to react.

The scenario was totally believable. I could see myself in it. Especially when I'm as tired and pressured as I am at the moment, which is what made it so powerful for me. The point is that how you react is a choice.

Thank you for reminding me.

Our daily bread

Every weekend I make a batch of bread to see us through the week. Thanks goodness for breadmakers. Whatever we don't need right away goes into the freezer as soon as it's cool, so when it comes out it's the next best thing to fresh. There is just no comparison with your average shop-bought loaf.

I've got used to taking it for granted now, but for some reason, cutting into a new loaf this morning, I thought how lucky I am that I can do this.